Please don’t send to a friend

One of the key ways I get around the spam scourge is to use a separate email address for close friends, family and important business contacts. I don’t use this address for anything else. As a result, the people closest to me don’t have to worry about their messages getting caught in spam filters and I can easily zero in on the most important messages.

I’ve started getting spam to this address. It’s a complex address, so it’s not really prone to dictionary attacks. As far as I can tell, someone entered my address on a third-party site.

A lot of sites are pushing users to email a link or to invite their friends as part of the sign up process. Some even go so far as to offer to import your address book from Outlook, Gmail or AOL.

Please just say no. When you’re signing up for a service, you often have very little information about how that site will use the data. If you want me to read a story or sign up for something, just shoot me an email or IM the old-fashioned way.

You wouldn’t write your friend’s email address on a bathroom wall, would you? Giving it to a Web site operator is even worse. You don’t know where that address will end up.

About Rakesh Agrawal

Rakesh Agrawal is Senior Director of product at Amazon (Audible). Previously, he launched local and mobile products for Microsoft and AOL. He tweets at @rakeshlobster.
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1 Response to Please don’t send to a friend

  1. isabel says:

    I know what you mean. I do the same — keep separate email addresses for different groups. I like how you say giving away email addresses is worse than scribbling it on the bathroom wall. It really drives the message home. Now I know what to tell my friends when they ask why I want to keep my address private! Thanks — very helpful info here.

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